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Poslao: 23 Maj 2012 18:10
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Good idea.  But, why exactly with my post to start to? 
Ok.
Citat:Razlog zašto su društveni odnosi postali poremećeni je, po meni, taj što smo nespremni i previše osetljivi da se nosimo sa današnjim vremenom, koje je prilično surovo, kao i sa ljudima, koji su pod uticajem vremena, takođe postali surovi. Da bi se koliko-toliko "zaštitili" od svega toga, biramo opciju da što manje budemo uključeni u društvenu interakciju. Na taj način smanjuju se šanse da se nađemo u situaciji u kojoj bi nas neko potencijalno mogao povrediti.
Što se tiče tvog pitanja iz samog naslova, mislim da prijatelje ne možeš planski tražiti. Njih jednostavno sretneš ... nekada, negde ...
Treba biti strpljiv, izuzetno strpljiv.
The reason why the social relations became disordered is, in my opinion, because people are not well -prepared and they are too sensitive to deal with nowadays circumstances, which are very cruel as well as to deal with other people who became cruel too under the era they live in. In order to protect ourselves from all that influences, we choose an option which provide us not being involved in social interaction. In that way, there are not much possibilities to be in an unpleasant situation in which someone could hurt us.
As for the question you mentioned in the title, I think you can't plan finding friends. You just meet them... someday, somewhere ...
(We should be patient, very patient.)
Mistakes, suggestions? I'm listening to all of you.
You are supposed to write on this topic, too.
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Poslao: 24 Maj 2012 03:26
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Napisano: 24 Maj 2012 0:59
Here is an alternative translation (although it wasn't necessary  ):
Citat:The reason why the social relationships have become so disarrayed is, in my opinion, that we are unprepared and overly sensitive to deal with nowadays circumstances, which tend to be rather cruel, as well as people, which have under the influence of these same circumstances, as well become cruel. In order to somewhat protect ourselves from all of that, we tend to chose the option of diminishing our involvement in social interaction. That way we are reducing the chances to find ourselves in the situation where potentially we would be betrayed by someone.
Regarding your question from the title itself, I think that you cannot plan to seek out friends. Them you just encounter . . . someday, somewhere . . .
It takes patience, lasting patience.
As far as my opinion on the topic, well, I wrote a rather extensive answer, but chose not to post it 
I will just say: Everything in life is what we make of it. (delve on that )
Dopuna: 24 Maj 2012 3:26
Well, I decided to add an excerpt from my extensive answer
Citat:As far as my opinion on the topic, well, I would consider a person who has, say one true friend to be a rare trait, two or more I would consider borderline impossible.
Make no mistake, when I say a true friend, I'm not talking about someone that we are just spending a lot of time with. I'm talking about someone who knows everything about us, of whom we know everything, with whom we have trust and loyalty. To simply put it, not only someone we would die for if a situation arose, but for whom we would kill without a second thought.
Unfortunately in these days of twisted morals, misplaced loyalties and overall debauchery, a true friend is hard to find. Nevertheless that is not good enough reason to stop seeking.
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Poslao: 24 Maj 2012 23:25
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You can count true friends on one hand through life....
When I was younger I didn't believe in that but now as the years go by I am more and more convinced that's the truth....
When we talk about friendships one joke come to mind...
A real friend will bail your out of jail
A true friend will be siting next to you in a jail cell with words: Damn we fucked up again
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, but unfortunately my brain is on sabbatical 
