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Odlucila sam se da, posto je forum ljubav u pitanju, otvorim topik gde mozete da postujete price o ljubavi, svoje ili kao sto je Sanjaj uradila, tudje, s tim da navedete autora. Mislim da je tako bolje nego da za svaku pricu otvaramo po jedan topik 
Evo linka ka prici koju je Sanjaj postovala-->
http://www.mycity.rs/phpbb/viewtopic.php?t=25712
A evo jos jedne lepe ljubavne price
Eseji O Ljubavi
Kao da sam pozvana da učinim nešto veliko i trajno.
Kao da sam s tvojom ljubavlju spremna da savladam sebe samu, svoju nemoć, svoj strah i svoju nepokretnost.
Da ti kažem da senke koje me progone ove večeri imaju tvoje lice, i one koje su žive, i one koje su mrtve, i one koje su mi nanosile bol, i one koje su mi donosile radost.
Senke nekih mojih života prepoznajem, a željna sam ih kao što sam željna tvoje ljubavi, dodira, postojanja.
Volim te, znači tražiti smisao, biti spreman i otvoren.
Volim te, znači živeti istinu i drhtati pri pomisli na tebe. Zahvaljujem ti se na svemu ma koliko to trajalo.
Ljubavi, siromašni su oni koji nikada nisu voleli! Ja ne želim da te učim već da te volim, to je viši stepen saznanja. Ako veruješ u sebe, za posledicu ćeš imati nesalomivu savitljivost koja odoleva svakoj oluji.
Tako će ljubav i život biti jedno. Volim te, zaista te volim.
Znam da mi ne veruješ i misliš kako ću te i ja jednog dana izneveriti. Zapamti, moja ljubav izdržaće prevare, Izdržaće veruj, izdržaće. Tera me silna potreba za tobom.
Tada i moj život dobija smisao. Moja sudbina dobija nove oblike osmišljene tobom. Zbog tvoje ljubavi ti oblici imaće neprocenjivu vrednost. Zar mogu očekivati više? Trenutno jedino moja ljubav ima svrhu, jedino ona daje vrednost ovom pisanju, jedino to duboko osećanje pripadnosti tebi donosi smisao koji iako polako izlazi iz mene, ostavlja me isceđenu i nemoćnu ma koliko želela da te ljubim, da ponovo vodimo ljubav na vrelom pesku...
Željo, postojiš uzalud! Zašto pobogu, mogli smo na taj tajni put krenuti zajedno. Šteta, jer moja ljubav za tebe nije ništa. Ne znam više šta govorim, pokušavam da ti objasnim, opišem stanje u kome se nalazim.
Kako da ti opišem to stanje, taj mamurluk duše, taj instinkt i strepnju, to lutanje, to ponižavanje. Kako te ponekad mrzim, ne mogu da te se oslobodim,, da se odvojim, da poželim drugog čoveka, a opet samo tvoje lice za mene ima smisla. Ponekad sanjam, kroz snove preživljavam one dane dok si me valjda voleo. Nije teško biti rob onome koga voliš. Neću da te pitam zašto je to tako očigledno. Da bi samo uvećalo moj bol ponekad mislim kako je sve to jedan trenutak u vremenu, trenutak između dva udarca. Kao neki tren u kojem svest pritiska moje biće i cedi ga izvlačeći esenciju koja se zove ljubav. Ponekad postajem dosadna i sebi. Ljubav pa ljubav.
Ponekad se pitam odakle dolazi ljubav, Odakle snaga i ta nemoć istovremeno? Otkuda oblaci tvog lica sto me progone iz časa u čas.
Zašto si ti postojan u meni, zašto ne mogu da te odvojim od suštine mog života? Kako, zašto, nije dovoljno reći samo volim te.
Plašim te se, želim te i bojim se tebe, mrzim te i ubijam te svakodnevno, jer ti si moj strah i moja groznica i moje nemanje, moja ograničenost, i moja tupost i sve moje gluposti. i sva moja dela, i ti si istina, i ona duhovna osama iz koje prolaze reči čudesne kao putovanja. Kada kažem volim te pomislim na ono što čini ta reč, na sve ono što si živeo, što ziviš i što ćeč živeti.
Koliko samo može da nedostaje zadovoljstvo milovanja, neznosti..
Volim te u vremenu mnogobrojnih života znači pobediti smrt,,znači nadu i smisao života, puteve ka tebi..Možda je sadašnja ljubav u ovom životu način da se naučim patnji..Ovaj svet ponekad je surov, ponekad nisam u stanju da razumem, ponekad ga prihvatam, ne volim ništa što znam. Predosećam da ćeš otići, da će te tokovi života odvući od mene. Šta nam vredi traganje za sobom ako se izgubimo pre nego što smo sebe pronašli Na putevima života ne postoje prešice. To je jasna svetlost saznanja. Mogu. Odlazim od tebe. Spašavam te mog prisustva, moje komplikovanosti, mojih nesanica i prevelike ljubavi koja ti je prešla u dosadu..Ona je uvek nešto drugo od onog što trenutno mislimo da jeste. Od moje ljubavi mogu uvek očekivati više. Zašto želimo da je se oslobodimo? Zašto obuzima tuga i radost, dva različita osećanja istovremeno? Znam, odlazim od tebe ali ne od ljubavi moje. Razumeš njenu dubinu i moj bol.
Ovaj odlazak nije smrtna presuda za našu ljubav. Ponekad želim da ti predložim da kreneš sa mnom da delimo život koji je ostao. Ali osećam da bih pogrešila i uplašila te. Ja ne sumnjam u tvoju iskrenost, u sve što si mi podario za ovo vreme ljubavi. Sad znam odakle izvire ta ljubav i sa tom spoznajom mogu da odem na put znajući da ćeš zauvek biti uz mene, u ledenom trajanju bez bola, patnje. jednom trajanju koje ne iskupljuje blažene ali i ne kažnjava grešne. To je sve za sada, za jedan život, za delić drvenog vremena u kojem se obnavljaju sve moje radosti i sve moje tuge, Ti si zaista moja ljubav za sva vremena!
Autori: Tatjana Debeljački
preuzeto sa : tajnaveza.net
Dopuna: 03 Dec 2005 23:16
Paradise of the Mind: Fantasies Revealed
By Kathryn D'Imperio
Several things come to mind when the word fantasy is uttered... Men and women typically harbor different desires, although some overlap is to be expected.
Fantasy can include many things. "Something that I desire but probably won't ever experience", is how one of my close friends described what it means to her. Several of the other friends I have spoken to feel the same way. "Even if you had the opportunity to obtain it", another friend said, "you probably wouldn't want it for very long, it could get annoying to have everything be perfect all the time."
Besides, what makes the best times so great is partly because they stand out from day-to-day routine. Another friend divulged, "When I think fantasy, I think me on the beach with a good book and lots of sun and maybe a guy rubbing some suntan lotion on me while I sip a strawberry daiquiri." One of the best parts about your fantasies is that they can be anything you want them to be. As my friend continued to add more elements to her reverie, the fantasy got better and even more desirable. And though fantasies are limited by the bounds of ones imagination, they can still erupt into reality. With some phone calls and careful planning, next months paycheck could easily become this tropical paradise!
In addition to providing peace of mind and escape from the real world, fantasizing may also serve as a vehicle to a more satisfying sex life. Fantasies put people in touch with their sexuality, while also allowing them to become more comfortable with themselves and within their relationships.
Women tend to be very sensual and romantic, relying on soft lighting, scented candles and slow music to set the mood. When most women fantasize about making love, it is often with a focus on their current partner (though sometimes someone unattainable, famous, etc. may creep into the mind's eye.) Location and setting play important roles as well, and the emotional connection is critical in most cases.
For some women, the ultimate fantasy is just spending time with the one they love. According to one woman, "There are the occasional naughty fantasies, but I think more than anything, I think about being curled up in his arms."
With men, the fantasies turn in quite a different direction. The most common response to the fantasy question should not surprise you. Girl plus girl, and threesomes topped the charts. My very own cousin had no qualms in admitting that to me, and additionally, enough can't be said for the aggressive female. There's something about a woman who knows what she wants and goes for it.
You've seen the movies where busloads of cheerleaders or half-naked babes arrive at the feet of two lone dudes, or many similar instances. There is no getting around it, guys love wome nand sex. And although many fantasies likely do involve the untouchables of society those that we desire but cannot have one male friend notes that he bets most people's fantasies involve everyday people we see.
Not only does the imagined person play a crucial role in the fantasy, but the setting itself is also a critical component. The beach seems to shine as the most desired amorous hot spot with the sound of the waves lapping on the shore, a gentle breeze, and the sand beneath you is just brimming with romance!
So where does fantasy end and reality begin in the realm of sexual fantasy? It al depends on the details of your prospective plan and your partners preferences. More times than not, in the hopes of strengthening the bond with their love or just having a little fun, people are generally somewhat willing to play a bit outside the lines of a cookie cutter relationship.
Not all fantasies are sexually driven; several friends have informed me that theirs center around the dream life, a good marriage, a nice home, car, vacation, the entire package. "It is a fantasy because it is perfect, and life isn't", said one of my friends. And although life may not be perfect, sometimes happiness within our own corner of the world gives that illusion.
Whatever your fantasy may be, treasure it, enjoy it and perhaps share it, if you find yourself with that incredible person. da, procitajte, mozda vidite da je bas tako...
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